“Don’t Marry Him if He Lacks These,” Warns Pastor Paul Adefarasin

Pastor Adefarasin advises ladies to prioritize vision and mission when choosing a partner. The General Overseer of House On The Rock Church has emphasized the importance of considering a man’s vision and mission before entering into marriage.

He urged women to carefully assess a potential partner, advising against solely focusing on physical appearance or financial status. Instead, he stressed the importance of understanding a man’s purpose and his plan to achieve it.

“Women, when you marry, choose a man based on his mission, something you can align yourself with,” Pastor Adefarasin stated. “Don’t be swayed by superficial qualities. If he lacks a clear vision, marriage is not advisable. And if he doesn’t have a roadmap for his vision, stay away.”

He further emphasized the significance of open communication, suggesting two crucial questions for women to ask potential partners:

• “Where are you going in life? What are your goals and aspirations?”
• “What is your mission?”

Pastor Adefarasin highlighted that while submission is an essential aspect of marriage, it’s crucial for women to choose wisely. “You have the right to choose who you submit to,” he said. “If he lacks direction and purpose, don’t enter into a partnership with him.”